"This is something different. A friend? whoa! This has to do alot of thinking. *giggles*"
Facing reality now-adays is such a hard thing to do. You can't decide where to turn to whenever you're down and weary. As what the lyrics of the song say:
"When you're weary, feeling small
When tears are in your eyes, I will dry them all
I'm on your side, oh, when times get rough
And friends just can't be found
Like a bridge over troubled water
I will lay me down
Like a bridge over troubled water
I will lay me down"
When tears are in your eyes, I will dry them all
I'm on your side, oh, when times get roughAnd friends just can't be found
Like a bridge over troubled water
I will lay me down
Like a bridge over troubled water
I will lay me down"
...So, whenever we hear these lines, there's a certain hope that arises within us. Thinking that we are not alone. We have those people whom we could rely on. And we call them --- FRIENDS. Just a moment ago, i can't help but laugh about my teacher's comment about my blog [in FACEBOOK] She told me that she'd check my blog 'cause for sure it's all about love. LOL. With that realization, i came up with this. :)
What can i say? I have friends. Alot of them, in fact. But the question is, WHO ARE MY REAL FRIENDS IN THIS BIG BIG WORLD? This is something, really. ^_^ For me, a REAL friend is not someone who cries whenever you did something great; A person who knows you're not in the mood without you telling them; Who understands you when you say, " i want to be alone".; Who doesn't get tired of hearing all your stories for the Nth time. And most of all, A real friends is someone who doesn't LEAVE you unnoticed whatever happens. I'd say, Friendship is also about COMMITMENT. Through thick and thin; for richer and for poorer; Till death do us part. =) -- I am not talking about Marriage here, so to speak. LOL
But then there are conditions: [i'm listing atleast five of them LOL]
5. NEVER BACKSTAB. It would only cause you trouble. It is a way of ruining things that you had. Simple way of saying, I am plastic. Nyork. :D
4. NEVER EVER TAKE SIDES. This is common in every group of friends i know. Whenever there are two of your friends who aren't in a good condition, listen to both. You should learn about the real story. Do the right thing by making them talk. and you know--- as in, TALK.
3. DON'T BE A FREE-RIDER or JUST THE BENEFICIARY. In every relationship, it has always been give-and-take . When you know a friend needs you, you should do something to help him or her. It's not all about YOU. Don't be selfish :)
2. NEVER BE ENVIOUS WITH WHAT YOUR FRIEND HAS. This is a no-no. This would only create a different feeling towards each other. The least you could do is be happy with the good things that God has given her/him. And in your case, whenever you receive blessings, share it. :)
The last one is something serious...really really serious. HAHAHAHA!
1. NEVER NEVER EVER FALL IN LOVE WITH A FRIEND. Do i need to say more? LOL. It just makes the situation difficult and complicated. :) Especially if that friend is inlove with another person. Bwahahahah!
What can i say? I have friends. Alot of them, in fact. But the question is, WHO ARE MY REAL FRIENDS IN THIS BIG BIG WORLD? This is something, really. ^_^ For me, a REAL friend is not someone who cries whenever you did something great; A person who knows you're not in the mood without you telling them; Who understands you when you say, " i want to be alone".; Who doesn't get tired of hearing all your stories for the Nth time. And most of all, A real friends is someone who doesn't LEAVE you unnoticed whatever happens. I'd say, Friendship is also about COMMITMENT. Through thick and thin; for richer and for poorer; Till death do us part. =) -- I am not talking about Marriage here, so to speak. LOL
But then there are conditions: [i'm listing atleast five of them LOL]
5. NEVER BACKSTAB. It would only cause you trouble. It is a way of ruining things that you had. Simple way of saying, I am plastic. Nyork. :D
4. NEVER EVER TAKE SIDES. This is common in every group of friends i know. Whenever there are two of your friends who aren't in a good condition, listen to both. You should learn about the real story. Do the right thing by making them talk. and you know--- as in, TALK.
3. DON'T BE A FREE-RIDER or JUST THE BENEFICIARY. In every relationship, it has always been give-and-take . When you know a friend needs you, you should do something to help him or her. It's not all about YOU. Don't be selfish :)
2. NEVER BE ENVIOUS WITH WHAT YOUR FRIEND HAS. This is a no-no. This would only create a different feeling towards each other. The least you could do is be happy with the good things that God has given her/him. And in your case, whenever you receive blessings, share it. :)
The last one is something serious...really really serious. HAHAHAHA!
1. NEVER NEVER EVER FALL IN LOVE WITH A FRIEND. Do i need to say more? LOL. It just makes the situation difficult and complicated. :) Especially if that friend is inlove with another person. Bwahahahah!
*I think, I've already mentioned everything i wanted to say. For your negative reactions, comments and abhors. Just free to comment. Hahahahah!*
2 comments:
naks...mao mao jd jex...
Hahahaha. but it's different with you and andrick. pero wait, You've been to that stage too. =))
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